Thursday, July 9, 2009

Family Emergency

I don't even know how to say this, so I'll just say it.

My mother is dead. She passed away last night sometime. My father found her this morning. He had gotten up early, but she was still asleep . . . which is not unusual. She's a late sleeper. But when she had not gotten out of bed by 11am, my dad went to check on her. He found her body.

We don't know a lot right now. The coroner thinks it may have been some kind of intestinal rupture that caused her to vomit and aspirate. But she died in the night, and they concluded it had been several hours by the time it was discovered.

No, I'm not kidding.

I don't know what else to say, other than we have a lot of phone calls to make and arrangements to make. Divine Intervention is a powerful thing: Jim happened to be in town this week and just happened to be working from home today, so I was able to drop everything and speed home to be there for my dad. He's at my house now, and he will be for a while. Once the funeral arrangements are made, we'll have to return to Newnan.

Right now, we are just sitting here looking at each other and saying, "What now?"

23 comments:

Anonymous said...

I'm so very sorry to read this horrible news about your mom. My thoughts are with you, your dad, and the rest of your family.

Becky said...

You have all of our sympathy and prayers. If you need anything at all, please call. It's ok to ask for help, especially now. We are all here for you. Sending love and hugs to you, Jim, the girls and Uncle Dennis.

((HUGS))

Twinkletoes said...

Oh my gosh. I have a knot in my stomach for you. I am so incredibly sorry. My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family during this extremely difficult time.
Again, I am so sorry.
~Lynn/PA

Buddy Buds and Friends! said...

Praying for you and your family. I am so so so sorry. Kelly

Anonymous said...

Prayers go out to you and your family.

Charlotte said...

Oh my... I'm so so sorry. My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family...

The Fokens Family said...

Love you Heather. I'm soo very sorry to hear this. I want to help you in any way...meals, childcare etc.
Praying for your family.
~Erica

Andrea said...

Heather, I am so sorry for all of you guys. I know that your life will be quite a roller coaster for a while, so I won't bother you with phone calls, however if you need anything, please call us or if you don't feel like talking email or text us, we don't live far and can be there in a flash. Don't hesitate, let everyone help. We will be praying for you and the rest of your family for strength. God Bless you all!
~The Cofields

Morgan and Andy said...

Oh Heather, I'm so sorry! You and the rest of your family are in our prayers. I know we're 5 hours away, but please let me know if there's anything at all that we can do. Big hugs and lots of love to all of you.

allyson said...

Heather, I'm so sorry this terrible tragedy has added to the stress you've endured this year. My thoughts are with you and your family at this time. While I know you and I are friends of a friend, don't hesitate to let me know if you need help with anything.

Love,
The Winbush Family

Jen O'Daniel said...

I'm so sorry to hear about your mom. My thoughts and prayer are with you, your father, and the whole family during this difficult time.

Jennifer

Becky said...

Heather, I am so very sorry and my prayers are with you and your dad and the rest of your family. I wish I was closer and could do something to help you out and give you a hug. Love Becky

Natalie at Our Old Southern House said...

oh heather, i don't even know what to say. i'm so so so sorry. i'm praying for you and your family right now.

Lexi's Mom said...

Heather,
I want you to know I've been thinking about you all day today since I read this this morning. I have been praying for you and your family almost constantly. I know this has to be hard for you regardless of your relationship with your mother. My heart goes out to you and if you need ANY help at all with the kids or really just anything, PLEASE call me. I know we haven't been hanging out much lately but that doesn't matter. I am still here if you need me.
Holly

Karen said...

Heather, I am so very sorry- you and your family are in my prayers right now. I know what it is like to lose your mom, first hand. Please let me know if I can do anything.

Jennifer Melda said...

We are so very sorry to hear this awful news! Please know that we will be thinking about you and your family during this terribly difficult time! I do not know what else to say other than we are SO SORRY and HATE that you are going through this! The Melda Family

Kayce said...

Oh my, we are so sorry to hear of this loss. Our prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time.

Maria said...

We're thinking of you and keeping you all in our prayers. Please let us know if there is anything you need!

Maria said...

We're so sorry for your loss. We are thinking of you all and keeping you in our prayers.

Priscilla said...

Heather, I am shocked and devastated by your mom's sudden death. Please post her funeral arrangements as soon as you know them. I want you to know that I love you and Jim and your sweet daddy dearly and I am thinking of you all constantly.

Tiffany Payment said...

I am so sorry Heather. Your entire family is in my prayers. xox

The Cibulas said...

Heather, we just got back to town after a long weeekdn away. I am soooo sadenned by your news. I will be in touch soon to offer some help with anything!...especially the girls! Love you dearly!!

The H's said...

heather--i read your blog but you don't know me. i'm a friend of tracy stine's and she shared it with me months ago. i just wanted to let you know how very, very sorry i am for your loss. i can't imagine what you're going through, but know the you, your family and your mother will be in my prayers. may she rest peacefully.

kristen hernandez